EP.13 | 我才是對的！婚姻裡的教養戰爭：如何由對立走到同行 ft. Ailey

你試過未？你覺得阿仔應該讀活動教學，老公一句「你知唔知出面社會有幾現實」就 KO 咗你。你跟小朋友慢慢傾，老公一聲令下即刻靜晒，然後佢話：「睇吓，權威幾有效。」

今集係 Ali 故事嘅下集。上集佢分享咗點樣同童年嘅自己和解，今集佢坦誠剖白——呢場同自己嘅和解，點樣撞落老公身上。

由揀幼稚園開始，Ali 想行非主流、甚至 homeschool，老公堅持「主流先學到生存技能」。兩個人都覺得自己先係為個仔好，結果係——各執一詞，Ali 選擇沉默，做返個「乖乖女」。

直到非暴力溝通俾咗佢一個新嘅視角：唔再問邊個啱，而係問——你背後想滿足咩需要？

當佢睇到老公嘅權威背後係想保護個仔、想佢有能力生存，而呢啲需要同自己嘅一模一樣——分歧就不再係對錯問題。

最觸動嘅係，老公最後竟然主動話：「我好似體驗到一啲唔同嘅嘢。」

如果你同另一半都曾經為教養問題僵持不下，今集值得一聽。

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SPEAKER_00 0:13

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SPEAKER_00 22:31

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SPEAKER_02 26:14

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